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Join Jews of Color Sanctuary at this open Homecoming event welcoming Bilhah & Zilpah as they enter the Torah in Parashat Vayeitzei.
Come to hear what has been going on with the Bilhah Zilpah Project over the last year, learn some Bilhah Zilpah wisdom for our modern lives, and leave with a new relationship to these matriarchs. This time, let’s read the story through their eyes…
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The Bilhah Zilpah Project, which started in 2020 as an independent study project, has become our biggest event of the year since finding a project home at Jews of Color Sanctuary. Homecoming is a series of events open to the entire Jewish community which usually begins on the Sunday before the Shabbat of parashat Vayeitzei, when Zilpah and Bilhah entre the Torah, coinciding during the week Sigd is celebrated as a national Israeli holiday preserved in the history of the Beta Israel people… and is the anniversary of Jews of Color Sanctuary.
After three years of weekly chevruta study, and at numerous events with folks like you, focusing on the lines of Torat Bilhah Zilpah and character exploration, the past year’s study expanded to include relevant midrash and commentary of these matriarchs. This has introduced exciting insight into ancestral connections, divine power, and generational wisdom for survival which will be interspersed throughout and featured at the closing session of this year’s Bilhah Zilpah Homecoming.
However, first, we will welcome Zilpah’s and Bilhah’s return to the Torah through the twenty-four lines that invoke them and explore the ritual dreaming that has percolated up through the spirited engagement of collaborative sessions. Homecoming’s second session will link the wisdom of Bilhah & Zilpah to women throughout history who have navigated kindred silences and lack of bodily autonomy to inspire our community building and care work today.
Today is Sigd, and the Bilhah Zilpah Homecoming begins this Sunday… amidst all of the change happening, these are frameworks that center longing for and returning home, and giving voice to the voiceless… Torah we desperately need right now, and always. There is still time to register. Invite those you are working alongside building up the world to come, to join us as we welcome these matriarchs at three interactive online sessions of ritual dreaming and deepening relationship with the wisdom of Bilhah and Zilpah:
BILHAH & ZILPAH ENTER – 12-1:30pmET November 23: A Homecoming Celebration to welcome Bilhah & Zilpah as they enter the Torah in parashat Vayeitzei. This interactive session will deepen your relationship with the wisdom of these matriarchs, continue ritual dreaming, and mark the anniversary of Jews of Color Sanctuary.
MODERN MATRIARCHS – 3-4:30pmET December 7: Link the wisdom of Bilhah & Zilpah to women throughout history who have navigated kindred silences and lack of bodily autonomy. Explore how their voices can help us understand our modern lives, find community, survive marginalization, and realize abolition.
BILHAH & ZILPAH: ANCESTRAL STORIES – 3-4:30pmET December 21: Catch up on a year’s worth of learning focused on Bilhah & Zilpah through midrashic tales of ancestral connections, divine power, and generational wisdom for survival.
Register at https://bit.ly/BZenter
The celebration of Sigd is powerfully conveyed in the words of Beit Israel scholar Shula Mola in The Sound of Səgd (ስግድ): Reclaiming Language, Memory, and Belonging which invites us into a journey of the power of naming in sacred conversation with a foundational theme of the Bilhah Zilpah Project. May your Sigd be filled with meaning and joy.
Chag Sigd Sameach
Jews of Color Sanctuary began as a long-ago seed, many years before its earliest documented memories of 2015. After a multiple year germination, Jews of Color Sanctuary was birthed on Sigd in November 2019. On November 19 of 2025, Jews of Color Sanctuary turns six years old as the entire Jewish community celebrates the Beta Israel preserved, now national Israeli holiday of, Sigd.
It was important to anchor Jews of Color Sanctuary’s beginnings in a way that connected with the Jewish history of people of color. This priority has anchored centering Jewish people of color through holidays, creative practice, text study, and social engagement. Jews of Color Sanctuary strives to be a place where Jewish people of color can turn down the noise of the outside world and ground how we imagine and curate our Jewish identity and journey for ourselves. Whether in affinity or ally-welcome space, we feature the voices, identities, and lives of Jewish people of color.
Jews of Color Sanctuary has engaged more than 596 individuals and collaborated with 22 mission aligned organizations to nurture Jews through hundreds of programs and events. This adds up to a lot of good for the Jewish people.
The Bilhah Zilpah Project grew from independent study that began in December 2020 into a flagship program of Jews of Color Sanctuary with the first annual Bilhah Zilpah Homecoming in 2023. This celebration of silenced Jewish matriarchs has become our biggest event of the year and our fundraising anchor. Bilhah and Zilpah enter the Torah each year in parashat Vayeitzei, which falls on the Shabbat after the Shabbat of the week of Sigd. Homecoming is scheduled before Vayeitzei to foster conversations about the many intersecting topics of this scholarship at institutions across the landscape of participant communities; this often means alignment between the Beta Israel holiday, Jews of Color Sanctuary’s anniversary, and centering Bilhah and Zilpah, a coincidence which feels deeply meaningful.
Registration for the Bilhah Zilpah Homecoming is open. Join us to welcome these matriarchs at three interactive online sessions of ritual dreaming and deepening relationship with the wisdom of Bilhah and Zilpah:
BILHAH & ZILPAH ENTER – 12-1:30pmET November 23: A Homecoming Celebration to welcome Bilhah & Zilpah as they enter the Torah in parashat Vayeitzei. This interactive session will deepen your relationship with the wisdom of these matriarchs, continue ritual dreaming, and mark the anniversary of Jews of Color Sanctuary.
MODERN MATRIARCHS – 3-4:30pmET December 7: Link the wisdom of Bilhah & Zilpah to women throughout history who have navigated kindred silences and lack of bodily autonomy. Explore how their voices can help us understand our modern lives, find community, survive marginalization, and realize abolition.
BILHAH & ZILPAH: ANCESTRAL STORIES – 3-4:30pmET December 21: Catch up on a year’s worth of learning focused on Bilhah & Zilpah through midrashic tales of ancestral connections, divine power, and generational wisdom for survival.
Each year I look forward to coming together for a Shabbaton like nothing else, the Jews of Color Mishpacha Project’s annual cornerstone event brings together Jewish people of color and their ally beloveds for in-person spirituality, learning, laughing, and connection. This is a reset that nourishes me from year to year.
In addition to praying and communing together, the kosher Jewish retreat center hosting us is a working organic teaching farm that feeds guests and boasts an outdoor pool, lake, and hiking trails. It is a great place to recenter in nature and community.
There is still time to register and become part of the family.
Join scholar-in-residence, erica riddick, in Newton Massachusetts June 13-15 for three interactive sessions:
• FRIDAY JUNE 13: 6:30pm maariv service dvar Learning From Enslavement: Tapping Into a Foundational Message of the Torah & 7:30 dinner conversation at Temple Shalom; register for this conversation provoking dinner
• SATURDAY JUNE 14: 9:45-11:15am Juneteenth, July, & Freedom text study at Temple Shalom
• SUNDAY JUNE 15: 3-5pm Celebrating Bilhah & Zilpah Through Ritual at Newton residence; register for this interactive ritual workshop
erica will share their personal journey of how Bilhah and Zilpah has enriched connection to the Torah and engagement with challenging texts. Sessions will connect biblical enslavement with historic and modern manifestations, including emergent immigrant transgressions, as both source and opportunity, to live our values.
This scholar-in-residence opportunity will synthesize years of study on how Bilhah and Zilpah can bring awareness to social justice imbalance, how we can honor Bilhah and Zilpah as Jewish matriarchs, and ways to bring their wisdom into our action and ritual.
The night sky has always been miraculous. Even before humanity came to understand the impact of the moon on earth’s seas, it is easy to understand how calendars began marking lunar time. While the location of the sun came to reveal the time of day, and the trajectory height of the sun’s path associated with the seasons, the moon’s changes in visibility governed cycles into months.
Thinking of the moon commonly conjures images of white fullness against a sea of black, a sphere of peace amid the תֹ֙הוּ֙ וָבֹ֔הוּ וְחֹ֖שֶׁךְ tohu v’vohu chaos and void (Genesis 1:2) of seeming endless blackness. Yet the Jewish holiday of Rosh Chodesh celebrates the arrival of a new Hebrew month with the birth of every new moon. Setting the month in the darkness of the new moon may follow the wisdom seeded within the Torah’s story of creation spanning from evening to evening, וַֽיְהִי־עֶ֥רֶב וַֽיְהִי־בֹ֖קֶר vayahi erev vayahi boker there was setting there was dawning (Genesis 1:5).
God calls for light and it appears. God proclaims the light good, makes distinct within the dark, naming light day and dark night. This binary separation and naming originating through the first day of creation (Genesis 1:4-5) repeats in the separation of the water of the heavens from the water of the seas (Genesis 1:6-8), sea from the first place of dry land (Genesis 1:9-10), and adding lanterns to further mark night and day (Genesis 1:14-18). Genesis 1:16 opens with God creating two great luminaries before immediately suggesting the larger light rule the day and the smaller rule the night.
As the story of creation continues, God brings forth grass, seeds, fruit trees, sun, moon, stars, water creepers, flying birds, sea monsters, herd animals, land animals, and humans (Genesis 1:2-27). Each introduction affected what was surrounding it.
All water on earth is connect to the seas. All water is affected by the gravitational pull of the moon. Yet, noticeable effects are increased or diminished by volume.
In Chullin 60b:2-4, Rabbi Shimon ben Pazi notes the contradiction between equality and what appears to be an immediate shift. Pazi shares midrash outlining an exchange between moon and God. It’s easy to wonder about the moon’s motives in questioning, and blame the lessening as a repercussion of confronting God. Making an analogy to the doctrine of separate but equal can offer another perspective of the moon as a body of light willing to speak up and call out separation presented as equal that is not.
There is more to be curious about in these lines––referencing kings (masculine plural) and speaking ‘to her’ in an equality framework, God’s ability to call forth creation and separation through words yet directing moon to diminish itself, humans bringing sacrifice to atone for a transgression of God, the stars being luminarily ignored, and linguistic associations with great-lesser and light-dark, for example. Amidst the questions, a beautiful aspect of this midrash is that God listens to moon, and continues to try to make reparations. In the culminating attempt, God notices moon is not comforted. God acknowledges the harm, attempts to make amends, and pays attention to the result.
This story could be minimized as cleaning up one’s mistake. This moment can also be read as allyship. Intentional, careless, and unconscious harm are distinct states. Making mistakes is inevitable and can happen through carelessness or unconsciously. How we respond is what matters most. We are theanthropic bodies affected by and affecting the world around us. This midrash invites us to pay attention when questions are raised, consider actions, and pay attention that an intention of solution lands as such. There’s also an unspoken message of mutual responsibility. Moon braves speaking up and God braves making repair. Along the way, both brave listening to the other.
Chodesh Tov Adar
Jews of Color Sanctuary partnership with Mayyim Hayyim entered its third year with the opening of Let Justice Well Up, a text study for Jewish women and nonbinary folks of color. This year we will explore our connection with the moon that moves tides, orders our Jewish calendar, and invites celebration of Shekhina, the female-centered aspect of the divine. Let the monthly blessing of Rosh Chodesh, birth of the new moon, wash over you through Jewish and secular texts welcoming us into ancient ritual and tradition to nourish our lives, creative practice, and personal ritual.
Register to join this affinity space for Jewish women and nonbinary folks of color on fourth Sundays through July between 9-10:30amPT / 12-1:30pmET / 6-7:30pmWAT / 7-8:30pmIT. Cost is self-determined sliding scale $36-$118. If cost is a barrier, please contact Soreh Ruffman at sorehr@mayyimhayyim.org.
We gathered in a bittersweet and joyful closing homecoming session to hold and honor Bilhah and Zilpah. Over our month together, we shared the story of Bilhah and Zilpah; a narrative of being born into a system of enslavement, navigating life’s realities, finding identity in a sea of change, and creating better opportunities for our children.
In our first session, we read the lines of Vayeitzei that introduce Zilpah and Bilhah, foreshadow their marriage to Yaakov as they’re given to Leah and Rachel, and reveal how they are used to create children intended to be claimed by other women. We journaled about how/why Bilhah and Zilpah are meaningful in our lives and considered the meaning and actions of homecoming. We closed with a collectively created welcome home prayer:
Welcome home Zilpah & Bilhah! May we learn to listen for and hear your wisdom and wrap it around us in comfort that teaches us to value and nurture our daughters from birth to death. שְׁמַ֣ע בְּ֭נִי מוּסַ֣ר אָבִ֑יךָ וְאַל־תִּ֝טֹּ֗שׁ תּוֹרַ֥ת אִמֶּֽךָ׃ Listen, my son, to your father’s instruction and do not forsake your mother’s teaching. You have arrived! Welcome Zilpah! Welcome Bilhah! All of you is welcome here. This is a space of collaboration.
Our second session looked at the other women of Bilhah’s and Zilpah’s story in parashat Vayishlakh and considered their relationships. The possibility for understanding and care born from kindred experiences. We noted Dinah’s experience with rape and her marriage being determined by her brothers and her rapist. We noted the women of Shekhem’s experience of witnessing their men be executed followed by their enslavement along with their children. We noted the mention of another woman (Devora) who had given her life to serve the family featured in the narrative. We started to excavate ritual imagery.
During our third session we continued looking for women in the story. Parashat Vayeshev, when we did not meet, mentions Tamar’s experiences surviving a husband’s death and control over her ability to procreate by her father-in-law, Yaakov’s unnamed daughters, and Timna as the mother of someone named an enemy. Parashat Miketz added only one woman, Asenat who was given to marry Yosef. We considered archetypes as a framework to understand the messages embedded within the story and connected the experiences, wisdom, and legacies of modern matriarchs to biblical matriarchs.
Today’s gathering opened with Esther Rabbah 1:12, a source that acknowledges six matriarchs instead of four. We are dropped into a discussion about a royal throne which turns to a query of how many steps led up to it. Like all rabbinic debates there was contestation and clarification. Are there seven instead of six? This is a classic case of tread versus riser. An additional riser goes up to a floor level, which is not a step, culminating in one additional riser than tread, the standing surface of a step, in any stair. The bulk of the source lands on six stairs (treads) and then likens it to a list of groupings of six: lands, orders of Mishnah, days of creation, matriarchs, and mitzvot.
Then, we invoked the Amidah line of the matriarchs, itself an augmentation to the prayer service in the history of prayer evolution. We played on the personal meditation invitation of the Amidah to reflect on the Esther Rabbah source and how it felt to step into prayer development space. We reflected on how ritual relates to legacy.
Throughout the readings, Bilhah and Zilpah remain in the story, always attributed as the birth parents of their children. That continues in parahsat Vayigash which holds the first accounting of the descendants of Zilpah and Bilhah. As we have welcomed Bilhah and Zilpah into the space, we have brought along ancestors and personal and biblical figures who have been meaningful in our life. Attendees shared recent yartzeits, honoring the memory of a loved one who had died, recently observed or coming up. Father’s, mother’s, a brother, a grandfather, a sister-in-law, an aunt, and a grandma named Hannah, who died during Chanuka, whose yartzeit starts this evening soon filled the room with us. Some had experienced a lot of loss this year. Everyone named someone. This set the stage for reading Zilpah’s and Bilhah’s lineages, first in Vayigash, culminating in Numbers.
We lit a yizkor candle and read the accounting of the families growth as they traveled to Canaan and later to Egypt. We focused on Zilpah and Bilhah, and then Gad, Dan, Asher, and Naphtali. We looked at options that can be found in traditional yizkor memorializations as we considered borrowing from this ritual as a way to honor Bilhah and Zilpah. As Chag haBanot and Rosh Chodesh approach, celebrating Serakh, Zilpah’s granddaughter and an immortal Talmudic elder, emerged as a calendar time to anchor possible communal commemoration. We returned to previous ritual elements explored in session two as ways to anchor memory to source material. Yartzeit and yizkor both are times when donations are often made in the name of a person being remembered. This idea wove into supporting organizations who support women who have been silenced after sexualized violence, bridging biblical matriarchs into the continuing realities of our world today.
We closed with storytime of Serakh midrashic tales of singing secrets, clarifying the texture of the Sea of Reeds, revealing where Yosef was buried, and vouching for Moshe from her first-hand knowledge, as the elder of elders who left Egypt and returned. This rolled into a midrash of ברזל barzel (iron) being an acronym for Bilhah-Rachel-Zilpah-Leah, Yaakov’s four wives representing the sefira malchut. We parted to a recording of Lucille Clifton reciting “won’t you celebrate with me”.
This is the final weekly email that runs during the annual Bilhah Zilpah Homecoming. Stay connected with the Bilhah Zilpah Project throughout the rest of the year with monthly emails sharing insights from weekly study. You can sign up for email through the homecoming registration form or reply to this email.
Joyful wishes for a continuing Chanukah and Kwanzaa and a meaningful Chag haBanot and Rosh Chodesh Tevet. May our actions bring us closer to the world to come.
We gathered for our penultimate session of the Bilhah and Zilpah homecoming. Today we grounded our welcome by naming historical or biblical figures who have been meaningful in our lives, sharing a bit on the lessons we have learned from them. Audre Lorde (1934-1992), Shifra & Puah (Exodus 1:17-19), Judith (Judith 13:10-12), Colin Ward (1924-2010), and Eartha White (1876-1974) were named. We also continued our tradition of inviting in the memories of ancestors fueling our learning: the persistence and resilience of a maternal grandfather to overcome fear; and Mi’kMaq great and great grandmothers, who were very fierce tenacious women, connected with during an ancestorial homeland visit to Newfoundland (Ktaqmkuk), Canada were brought in to support and enhance our learning…
Our recap of the first three parshiot of Bilhah’s and Zilpah’s homecoming, Vayeitzei, Vayishlakh, and Vayeshev, was offered before bringing in the stories of the upcoming parasha Miketz. On the surface, these portions tell the story of Yaakov leaving home, to save his life from the wrath of his brother Esav and seek a wife, ultimately acquiring four wives which is how we meet Zilpah and Bilhah. It is the tale of sending gifts to appease a brother heading his way accompanied by four-hundred men that sweetly resolves in a joyful reunion and an invitation for Yaakov to join Esav in Seir that is refused in lieu of Shekhem and the rape of Dinah. It is a story of settling down in a father’s homeland, raising a family, and mourning the ‘death’ of a favorite son; with a full chapter interlude of the righteous insistence of Tamar to have children, before returning back to Egypt where a very much alive Yosef has been sent to the dungeon for refusing the sexual advances of a wife with a powerful husband. The narrative will continue this coming Shabbat with Yosef freed by his ability to interpret dreams for a confounded Pharoah and the suggestions made that protect (and enrich) Egypt from the same famine that ultimately reunites Yosef with his family.
All that might be added to expound the single run-on sentence parshiot summaries would be details nuancing the broad brush strokes painted above. The call to center Bilhah and Zilpah invited closer consideration of ways to bring them in, especially in a portion which does not invoke either character. This offered opportunity to build on previous study and interpretations for reading solidarity between Bilhah and Zilpah with Leah and Dinah. This insight with Leah comes during Lavan’s search for his idols in the mountains of Gilad (Breishit 31:33) with it’s odd ordering of entering Leah’s tent, entering the shared tent of the two enslaved, and then exiting Leah’s tent before entering Rachel’s tent. Could Leah’s sense of herself as a second-class first-wife induce empathy with the second-wife realities of Zilpah and Bilhah? The invitation to envision solidarity with Dinah lies in Bilhah and Zilpah, as women who navigated orchestrated sexual control by others, witnessing the consequences endured by Dinah after her rape by Shekhem followed by her brothers deciding the fate of so many.
Beyond these primary female characters of Leah and Dinah, we looked at other women, some named and others merely noted, who existed within Vayeitzei, Vayishlakh, and Vayeshev. Miketz offered another chance to explore other women within the text, there was only one, Asnat who was given as a wife to Yosef. So, Bilhah and Zilphah entreated looking at the transitions between the narratives of women across the parshiot where they dwell, whispering to go back and include Toldot as a foundation. It is easy to miss this sequencing of matriarchal stories operating the background because of the focus on completing the full set of twelve sons that become the Israelites and in setting up the Jewish foundational narrative of being betrayed and enslaved by Pharoah. We had quite the spirited conversation of the archetypal messages subconsciously conveyed about women’s purpose and place, and the conditions under which autonomy of action by women is interpreted as righteous or wrong.
Our conversation introduced Modern Matriarchs which considers the stories of historical women alongside Bilhah and Zilpah. Modern Matriarchs grew out of understanding Bilhah and Zilpah as surviving lack of bodily autonomy amid their voices being silenced, a reality of many women today, if not all women to varying degrees. Bilhah and Zilpah have a lot to teach about navigating oppressive conditions. Connecting biblical wisdom with the secular insight of other women who survived kindred realities emerged as a powerful framework. The list started with Lucy, Anarcha, and Betsey (the women who made modern gynecology possible between 1845-1849); Nancy, Mary, and Lizzie (two enslaved sisters and a third enslaved woman married to the same man in 1855); Emma, Carrie, and Vivian Buck (three generations of women sacrificed to legislate control over women’s womb’s which came to a head in 1927); and Henrietta Lacks (whose cells made modern drug testing and development possible in the 1950s); women largely controlled in medical settings.
We met modern matriarch Recy Taylor (1919-2017) whose yartzeit is December 28. Recy was a twenty-four year old mother of one when she was abducted at gunpoint by seven men & raped by six in 1944, while walking home from church with another woman and the woman’s son. A car had passed several times that evening as the trio navigated along peanut plantations lining the highway in Abbeville, Alabama. Recy was forced inside the car by men armed with knives and guns, claiming they had been deputized to bring in an assailant who cut a white boy. Recy knew the men who raped her, and was warned to be silent, but she told what happened to her. There was no redemption for her from those men despite going through two trials and enduring intimidation. Recy’s voice might set her apart from Bilhah & Zilpah but little reveals whether or not Bilhah and Zilpah used their voice to affect their reality, beyond potential creative solidarity reads presented above. Recy’s story endures in part because of her brave resolve which ignited national organizing around the conditions of sexualized violence black women faced daily, that in turn provided the foundation for a civil rights movement to fight for the right to sit on a bus which was ultimately easier to win than protection of female bodies. This is part of Recy’s legacy, born from the brutality she endured that left her unable to have more children. The only formal redemption received was an apology by the Mayor of Abbeville in 2011 after the release of At the Dark End of the Street: Black Women, Rape, and Resistance–A New History of the Civil Rights Movement From Rosa Parks to the Rise of Black Power by Danielle McGuire. This highlights how voices can be erased even when raised. That history already shared through the words and actions of black activists appears unheard until written as a book by an author whose About page never names herself as white (or anything else) for a book that notes ‘Black’ twice in its title.
We brought Bilhah and Zilpah back into the conversation through the following journal prompts:
• How do Bilhah’s and Zilpah’s biblical realities relate to historic ones around the globe and ours today?
• How might Bilhah and Zilpah have channeled what they endured into actions that paved the way to better realities for their daughters?
• How do we interact with figures like Recy Taylor and understand them beyond one moment that came to define them? How do we do the same for Bilhah and Zilpah?
We returned to ritual explorations begun at our last session, now considering existing ritual moments connecting to characters discussed or the time of year:
אֱלֹהֵי אַבְרָהָם אֱלֹהֵי יִצְחָק וֵאלֹהֵי יַעֲקב
God of Abraham, God of Isaac and God of Jacob
וֵאלֹהֵי שָׂרָה אֱלֹהֵי רִבְקָה אֱלֹהֵי רָחֵל וֵאלֹהֵי לֵאָה
God of Sarah, God of Rebecca, God of Rachel, and God of Leah
Chevruta pairings yielded rich conversations that referenced Kindred by Octavia Butler, compared midrash as Jewish fan fiction, asked what it means to build a shared tent (during Sukkot and beyond), considered saving a bus seat for Elijah as an empetus for action during Pesakh, envisioned ways of weaving Bilhah and Zilpah into the Kabbalistic approach to counting the Omer using sefirot (attributes of God), considered the ethical issues of modern gestational characters where birth mothers are often excised from children’s lives distinct from biblical characters where mothers often remain in the picture, and pondered erecting altars to flawed individuals rather than requiring an image of perfection that requires erasure to warrant admiration.
After more group discussion, we brought in the ritual elements identified at the previous session, and split into small groups to look for objects, actions, prayers, and lines of Torah that might inspire ritual or be borrowed into it. We considered bat mitzvah, commonplace today yet didn’t exist until 1970, which may feel far away but is far from ancient. Bat Mitzvah has become so commonplace within the past fifty-five years that we are currently witnessing the continuing morphing of this ritual as it transforms from bar and bat into ‘b’ which stands for both and welcomes people for whom those categories are nuanced. The example demonstrates how Judaism needs us to create the rituals we need for our lives, which in turn keeps Judaism alive.
We considered:
Our engaged study took us right to the end of our time together. We were slow to part but looking forward to our last Bilhah and Zilpah Homecoming session on December 29 when we will explore Weaving Matriarchal Legacies, looking to the generations and story threads that tie us together. Register to join us. We would love to study with you! Until then, listen for Bilhah and Zilpah whispering to us.
We gathered again to continue honoring Bilhah and Zilpah, grounding our homecoming welcome by inviting in the memories of ancestors fueling our learning: Joan Little who was tried and convicted instead of her rapist, the memory of a dad who retired to become a stay-at-home parent, and a maternal grandmother dedicated to community…
Our witness began through reading the lines of hierarchy demonstrated in Breishit (Genesis) 33:2. The ordering of wives and children directly relates to who is valued to live and who is positioned to be sacrificed to death, reinforcing concepts presented in Caste: The Origins of Our Discontents by Isabel Wilkerson that are still with us.
Yaakov (Jacob) goes to Sukkot rather than join his brother Esav in Seir, despite feigning an intention to do so after a happy reunion instead of the vengeful scene he had feared. Yaakov’s refusal of Esav’s offer to send people from his people to accompany Yaakov and family foreshadows the opening of Dinah’s story within a story inside of parashat Vayishlakh. Dinah’s saga opens with the word וַתֵּצֵ֤א vateizei (she went out), harkening back to Yaakov leaving home… and maybe marriage gone awry…
Sukkot bridges the going out of the family who becomes the Israelite tribes through their twelve sons (completed as this parasha ends) with the going out Exodus of the Israelites leaving Egypt. Yaakov and family traveling to and naming Sukkot on his way to return to a parental homeland, and the Israelites returning to Sukkot, searching for a way home. Teshuva. Returning. To where? Home? New beginnings? Perhaps, returning to figuring out where we are returning to…?
Yaakov’s return leads to Dinah’a rape, which incites revenge killing, deferred from two brothers (Esav and Yaakov) to two sons (Shimon and Levi). Wealth is plundered, more cattle acquired, and women and children enslaved. The family leaves town in the wake of this destruction, on a journey toward more familial destruction in the deaths of Devora and Rachel.
Arrival in Beit El, a place invoked repeatedly, bridges Yaakov’s father’s (Isaac) marriage to his mother (Rivka) encountered at a well with his own marriages starting with meeting Rachel at a well. There is also a connection between Devora, Rachel, and idols all buried under a tree in Beit El, a place simultaneously referenced as going to and leaving from, yet remaining in the same place… perhaps reinforcing a need to figure out where we are returning to… or suggesting an impossibility of returning home…?
We noted the women of the portion that would have been in contact with Bilhah and Zilpah: other enslaved women in Yaakov’s camp, Leah, Rachel, Dinah, the daughters of the land in Shekhem, Devora, and a midwife. We waded through unexplored relationships and allegory for ritual opportunities to remember, name, and honor enslaved matriarchs, sacrificed matriarchs, and concubine matriarchs. We will return to this ritual foundation when we meet again on December 22 and link biblical matriarchs with historic and modern women and issues. Register to join us next time and/or on Sunday December 29 for Weaving Matriarchal Legacies, where we will look to the generations and story threads that tie us together. We would love to study with you!
Until then, keep listening for and hearing Bilhah’s and Zilpah’s voices.
It’s Bilhah Zilpah time!
If you’re reading along in the triennial portion, there are two focal lines that start to reveal Bilhah and Zilpah. These lines happen in the dramatic confrontation between Yaakov (Jacob) and Lavan that has been brewing over the previous twenty years. A moment catalyzed by Yaakov finally finding a way to leave and return home at the behest of God. During the encounter, in Breishit (Genesis) 31:43, Lavan declares he owns everything after searching for his stolen terafim hidden under a Rachel who uses menstruation to avoid detection.
וַיָּבֹ֨א לָבָ֜ן בְּאֹ֥הֶל יַעֲקֹ֣ב ׀ וּבְאֹ֣הֶל לֵאָ֗ה וּבְאֹ֛הֶל שְׁתֵּ֥י הָאֲמָהֹ֖ת וְלֹ֣א מָצָ֑א וַיֵּצֵא֙ מֵאֹ֣הֶל לֵאָ֔ה וַיָּבֹ֖א בְּאֹ֥הֶל רָחֵֽל׃
Breishit 31:33 reveals Lavan entering Yaakov’s tent, Leah’s tent, and the tent of the two slaves. Not finding it Lavan leaves Leah’s tent and enters Rachel’s tent.
Imagining the everyday realities of these different near-eastern biblical scenes can organically bring a lot to our connection to the text. Are these the same tents that were used back in Padan Aram, but quickly erected while journeying? Why is Lavan noted as entering the tent of Bilhah and Zilpah, then leaving Leah’s tent… do they have quarters secluded inside of Leah’s space? Why do Bilhah and Zilpah share a tent?
Trying to visualize how Bilhah and Zilpah lived, what activities occupied their days, and how they endured the oppressive systems controlling them bring to mind the ways that photographs can be used to explore the lived realities of people obscured throughout history. One can’t assume that an image featuring the focused community is representative. Consideration of why the image was created and messaging motive should be considered. Yet, images do capture certain realities of the moments they are created in. And, sometimes, in the background, reality is unintentionally immortalized in ways that support future excavating.
This approach can be applied to the Torah. In essence we learn that Zilpah and Bilhah appear to be sharing a tent while Leah and Rachel occupy their own tent. Does this relate to the status of Bilhah and Zilpah in this moment of the story? Where and how are other enslaved women housed, or unhoused? There is a potential reading that Bilhah’s and Zilpah’s secondary status, whether as wives or enslaved women, warranted second class housing. However, one empowered reading brought in during a previous Bilhah Zilpah Project session was consideration that Bilhah and Zilpah might choose co-housing as a way to increase safety for each other. While each woman navigated her own reality in a challenging realm, there is opportunity for midrashic insight into potential sisterhood between Zilpah and Bilhah with Leah over Rachel in that Leah felt unloved and may have found solidarity in some semblance of second-wife status despite being the first one married to Yaakov.
אִם־תְּעַנֶּ֣ה אֶת־בְּנֹתַ֗י וְאִם־תִּקַּ֤ח נָשִׁים֙ עַל־בְּנֹתַ֔י אֵ֥ין אִ֖ישׁ עִמָּ֑נוּ רְאֵ֕ה אֱלֹהִ֥ים עֵ֖ד בֵּינִ֥י וּבֵינֶֽךָ׃
The second line invoking Bilhah and Zilpah in this year’s triennial reading is the line that Rashi bases his attribution of Zilpah and Bilhah being daughter of Lavan through another enslaved woman, noting that Breishit 31:50 uses ‘my daughters’ twice. Four sisters navigating marriage to the same man offers an interesting framework for considering the interpersonal dynamics of this narrative. Sisters given as wedding gifts brings in additional historical examples endured by enslaved women in other periods as an invitation to bridge the power of the Torah throughout time.
A lingering question remains of how Lavan used Bilhah and Zilpah as enslaved women before giving them to Rachel and Leah. Assuming Lavan was sexually involved with their mother does not preclude Lavan potentially interacting sexually with Zilpah and Bilhah in a narrative where Yaakov has been sent to marry his cousin. Here too, historical examples can shed light on what humanity is capable of and therefore, what we may encounter within the Torah. One historic examples with the similarity of one man married to two enslaved sisters is recorded in an entry of the Underground Railroad Records by William Still: Slave-Holder in Maryland With Three Colored Wives.
While Zilpah and Bilhah are present during the next five consecutive parshiot, they are completely voiceless. We need the Torah and the Torah needs us to continually seek to connect and make meaning that bridges the Torah to today. We are each represented there, in part or in whole representations of characterizations. Tapping into ubiquitous wisdom from history and our personal lives is a powerful way to listen for Bilhah and Zilpah whispering to us, an ever-present invitation to support ongoing efforts in surviving marginalization, realizing abolition, and finding sisterhood.
May we listen for and hear their voices.
There is more Bilhah Zilpah Homecoming to experience! Register and join us for Witnessing Biblical Matriarchs on Sunday December 8, when we will connect with unexplored relationships between named and unnamed women in the story through creative midrash and set the foundation for ritual development; Witnessing Modern Matriarchs on Sunday December 22, which will link biblical matriarchs with historic and modern women and issues; and Weaving Matriarchal Legacies on Sunday December 29, where we will look to the generations and stories continuing to be woven together and return to ritual opportunities. We would love to study with you!
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